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Sunday, October 19, 2014
Just a typical Mormon Sacrament Meeting (Living by Faith)
Today was a great day at church, and the thought came to me to share it. Perhaps someone someday will find this and be interested to know what a Mormon service is like, or maybe I'm just writing so that I can remember it someday, but here it goes:
We actually made it a few minutes early for once! We sat a few pews from the back row, and because of the school holiday there weren't many people there. We opened by singing all three verses of 'Come, Rejoice' (click here to read and hear the hymn) which is a somewhat uncommon hymn. After an opening prayer from someone in the congregation (our Bishop has a tradition of asking whoever is there when he walks in to pray - it's a wonder anyone comes early!) were some short announcements - all priesthood holders in the stake (local area) are invited to a special priesthood meeting next week at 7 a.m. and this Friday is a stake couples/relationship seminar given by a prominent local couples counselor- "Everything else you can read in the program." We then prepared for the Sacrament (communion) by singing 'O Lord of Hosts' (click here to heard and hear the hymn), another uncommon hymn, and the Sacrament was blessed and passed by the Aaronic Priesthood.
Now it was time for the speakers - this week, three young women in their early 20's. The first was a sister from our ward who just returned this week from her 18 month mission service in Des Moines, Iowa. Her talk was beautiful as she told stories of living by faith on her mission. She emphasized the importance of praying that God will mold our hearts so that our desires will be His desires, and to live having faith that following Him we will have the greatest chance at happiness and influencing others. One quote I particularly liked from her was "We have to go through the 'I don't know why I'm doing this' phase before we see the miracle!" Listening to hear talk, I felt a confirming witness in my heart of the same thing - sometimes I wonder why I'm being a mom, teaching my kids, etc when it is so hard and seems nothing good is coming from it, but I was reminded how right it felt when I made that decision, and have faith that someday I'll see the good.
The next speaker was a new missionary, here for only 10 days, a young girl from South Carolina. She spoke about her conversion to the church only two years ago. She was raised Baptist and as a teenager felt unsatisfied in her mother's church, so she began attending a Christian church with a friend and was baptized there. Only a few months later she once again felt unfulfilled and gave up on religion for a time. In college she was paired with a Mormon roommate, who for months invited her to church and activities until one time she was bored and decided to come. She met new friends she liked and continued to go to church and activities with her friend. She went for almost 6 months before realizing how fulfilled and happy she felt, and decided it was something that she would like to pursue. Some things that touched me were her discussion of faith and whether it is a verb or a noun - "faith is something you seek" and "desire is an action of faith".
We then had a family from the congregation sing a song, called "The Miracle". I had never heard it before, but it was very powerful. The whole family was crying to the point that they almost had to stop singing, and I'm sure there were few dry eyes in the audience. It spoke of the miracles of Jesus, and how his biggest miracle is "the miracle that rescued me". You can see it sung in another Mormon service on this YouTube video or see the official video from the writer.
Our final speaker was a more seasoned missionary, scheduled to go home to Hawaii just after Christmas. She got up and said that she had not originally planned to speak about living by faith, but that after coming to church realized what she had written was not what she should talk about. She then began to also tell stories of living by faith, especially in those that she has seen on her mission. She spoke of a man who converted to the church and attended for two years, but could not get baptized because his wife said "You are Catholic, stop pretending to be Mormon." She eventually said that if he wanted to be baptized he would have to leave, so he did. He moved from the Philippines to Utah, intending to start a new life as a Mormon. His parents sent him an email saying they disowned him. His wife sent him divorce papers. Finally his brother came here and took him to visit Catholic priests to convince him not to become a Mormon, and all the priests said that they were too busy to speak with him - even after he'd explained the situation. That's a lot of odds against him, and while it is heartbreaking that he had to leave his family to do so, I admire this man's courage in doing whatever it took to do what he felt God wanted him to do.
We then closed by singing 'Let us all Press On' (read and listen here) which is a more commonly used hymn, then had a closing prayer offered by some other poor soul who had arrived early and been caught by the Bishop.
Sunday, September 21, 2014
Attending a Temple Dedication (Ogden Utah Temple)
On each of our meetinghouses, we proudly display the words "Visitors Welcome".
That's true, usually.
The only occasion in which it isn't true, to my knowledge, is in the case of Temple dedications.
The dedication of a Temple is an exciting event, and nearly every Mormon who is even remotely connected to the Temple being dedicated wants to be involved. Not only is it a chance to celebrate another building dedicated to the work of the Lord, it is a chance to hear wisdom and counsel from local and international Church leaders.
With the wonders of modern technology, this is possible!
A Temple dedication service is much like a regular worship service - there are several sermons, hymns, and prayers. All the furniture in the Temple is cleared out and replaced with hundreds of folding chairs, so that as many people as possible can fit inside the temple. But obviously it can't fit everyone, and not everyone could travel the distance required to get there even if there were space. So now, dedication services are broadcast to Stake Centers (to be defined in a future post) in the area. This way, nearly anyone who wants to participate can have the opportunity.
When a Temple dedication is broadcast (through an encrypted satellite or internet transmission), the stake centers receiving that transmission become extensions or satellite locations of the Temple, and thus are treated as Temples. Only those who are baptized and have a current Temple Recommend are allowed to enter the church building - no babies, no young children, no unbaptized visitors, none who are unworthy to attend the Temple.
Today was the re-dedication of the Ogden Utah Temple. All regular congregational worship services in Utah and parts of Wyoming were cancelled today and replaced by the live broadcast of the Temple dedication. So, no visitors allowed. We could have replaced our usual welcoming sign with a "Visitors *not* Welcome (just for today)" sign.
What happens? Why is it so super secret? As we always say with Temples, it isn't secret, it's sacred. In this case, it's just the fact that the building becomes dedicated as holy edifice. Simple as that. I will tell you right now everything that happens:
1. A couple hymns sung by a local choir.
2. An opening prayer offered by a local leader.
3. Sermons delivered by the Temple Matron and Matron's Assistants, Temple Presidency, Seventies, General Auxiliary Officers (in this case the presidents of the Relief Society, Young Women, and Primary), and Apostles. In this case we had two female and four male speakers. The only thing you might find interesting is that the speakers wear all-white from their wrists to their ankles, which we almost always wear in the temple (a future post on this). The topic focus is on the importance of the Temple.
4. The Hosanna Shout. (this is something that is quite sacred to us, and which is a tradition at the dedication of every Temple - ancient and modern. If you'd like to learn more about it and see an actual hosanna shout, the only public video and description I'm aware of is available HERE. The dedication of the Conference Center in Salt Lake City in October 2000. The actual Hosanna Shout is the last 50 seconds of the video, and an excellent introduction is given in the video or in the text transcription if you scroll down.)
5. Singing The Spirit of God
6. Closing prayer offered by a local leader.
And so, visitors - you are welcome, just not today.
That's true, usually.
The only occasion in which it isn't true, to my knowledge, is in the case of Temple dedications.
The dedication of a Temple is an exciting event, and nearly every Mormon who is even remotely connected to the Temple being dedicated wants to be involved. Not only is it a chance to celebrate another building dedicated to the work of the Lord, it is a chance to hear wisdom and counsel from local and international Church leaders.
With the wonders of modern technology, this is possible!
A Temple dedication service is much like a regular worship service - there are several sermons, hymns, and prayers. All the furniture in the Temple is cleared out and replaced with hundreds of folding chairs, so that as many people as possible can fit inside the temple. But obviously it can't fit everyone, and not everyone could travel the distance required to get there even if there were space. So now, dedication services are broadcast to Stake Centers (to be defined in a future post) in the area. This way, nearly anyone who wants to participate can have the opportunity.
When a Temple dedication is broadcast (through an encrypted satellite or internet transmission), the stake centers receiving that transmission become extensions or satellite locations of the Temple, and thus are treated as Temples. Only those who are baptized and have a current Temple Recommend are allowed to enter the church building - no babies, no young children, no unbaptized visitors, none who are unworthy to attend the Temple.
Today was the re-dedication of the Ogden Utah Temple. All regular congregational worship services in Utah and parts of Wyoming were cancelled today and replaced by the live broadcast of the Temple dedication. So, no visitors allowed. We could have replaced our usual welcoming sign with a "Visitors *not* Welcome (just for today)" sign.
What happens? Why is it so super secret? As we always say with Temples, it isn't secret, it's sacred. In this case, it's just the fact that the building becomes dedicated as holy edifice. Simple as that. I will tell you right now everything that happens:
1. A couple hymns sung by a local choir.
2. An opening prayer offered by a local leader.
3. Sermons delivered by the Temple Matron and Matron's Assistants, Temple Presidency, Seventies, General Auxiliary Officers (in this case the presidents of the Relief Society, Young Women, and Primary), and Apostles. In this case we had two female and four male speakers. The only thing you might find interesting is that the speakers wear all-white from their wrists to their ankles, which we almost always wear in the temple (a future post on this). The topic focus is on the importance of the Temple.
4. The Hosanna Shout. (this is something that is quite sacred to us, and which is a tradition at the dedication of every Temple - ancient and modern. If you'd like to learn more about it and see an actual hosanna shout, the only public video and description I'm aware of is available HERE. The dedication of the Conference Center in Salt Lake City in October 2000. The actual Hosanna Shout is the last 50 seconds of the video, and an excellent introduction is given in the video or in the text transcription if you scroll down.)
5. Singing The Spirit of God
6. Closing prayer offered by a local leader.
And so, visitors - you are welcome, just not today.
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
Visiting a Mormon Church: What to wear?
So, what should you wear if you visit a Mormon Church?
Well, technically, you can wear whatever you want. You aren't going to be turned away.
Most people like to have some guidelines so that they don't stick out, though. Unlike many Christian churches today that have adopted a 'come as you are' casual worship culture, most Mormons wear 'Sunday Best' (think business attire), even children. How you dress for worship often reflects your respect for God and your attitude toward faith.
Men:
Most men wear slacks with a white shirt and tie. Suits and sport coats or blazers are also common. You will see men wearing colored or even patterned button-down shirts with or without ties, but white is the standard. If you wear a hat, please remove it when entering the chapel.
Women:
Most women wear dresses or skirts that reach at least to the knee and tops that cover the shoulders. Dress pants are rarely seen, but acceptable. Dress styles range from more casual knit skirts and t-shirts to structured business-like suits and blouses.
Children:
Young children don't typically dress as formally as their parents. For boys, colored or patterned button-down shirts or polo shirts are quite common, but you will also see boys wearing suits or white shirts and ties. Teenage boys usually dress like the adult men. Girls usually wear dresses or skirts like the women.
Examples of typical 'Sunday Best':
What if I'm attending an activity, not a worship service?
'Sunday Best' is only worn for Sunday worship services. If you were invited to attend a congregation activity, community event, youth group, or other non-worship activity, you can wear whatever you want. Most Mormons wear jeans and t-shirts to non-Sunday activities held at the church, unless a special type of dress might be needed (i.e. dances or sports)
*All photos in this post courtesy of the LDS Church (https://www.lds.org/media-library/images/)
Well, technically, you can wear whatever you want. You aren't going to be turned away.
Most people like to have some guidelines so that they don't stick out, though. Unlike many Christian churches today that have adopted a 'come as you are' casual worship culture, most Mormons wear 'Sunday Best' (think business attire), even children. How you dress for worship often reflects your respect for God and your attitude toward faith.
Men:
Most men wear slacks with a white shirt and tie. Suits and sport coats or blazers are also common. You will see men wearing colored or even patterned button-down shirts with or without ties, but white is the standard. If you wear a hat, please remove it when entering the chapel.
Women:
Most women wear dresses or skirts that reach at least to the knee and tops that cover the shoulders. Dress pants are rarely seen, but acceptable. Dress styles range from more casual knit skirts and t-shirts to structured business-like suits and blouses.
Children:
Young children don't typically dress as formally as their parents. For boys, colored or patterned button-down shirts or polo shirts are quite common, but you will also see boys wearing suits or white shirts and ties. Teenage boys usually dress like the adult men. Girls usually wear dresses or skirts like the women.
Examples of typical 'Sunday Best':
What if I'm attending an activity, not a worship service?
'Sunday Best' is only worn for Sunday worship services. If you were invited to attend a congregation activity, community event, youth group, or other non-worship activity, you can wear whatever you want. Most Mormons wear jeans and t-shirts to non-Sunday activities held at the church, unless a special type of dress might be needed (i.e. dances or sports)
*All photos in this post courtesy of the LDS Church (https://www.lds.org/media-library/images/)
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